loving from above

Does true love exist? Does loving someone forever real? I believe it does. I think that we live in a world where having instant gratification is better.did we forget that love is a long process that starts w/ourselves. You can't truly love someone else. Its sad that we have to pay close attention to who we give our heat to b/c Betrayal follows love to close to give your heart away so free and willingly so how do we get back to loving the right way???? To know that there is. Only one way to happiness is to love and to be loved.