heartbeat

can one be really in tuned with someone's heartbeat, so in tuned that you know when something is off with them? Can we actually love someone flaws and all without wanting to change them to fit who we are?can we love someone enough to put aside all our fears? they always say when you find the one you just know... Do you? everything inside you will all agree on this person standing in front of you...but what happens down the road when you both are sitting across a table getting a divorce, does love still live in this home or did we just settle because we were unable to wait for God to send us the right one. I use to think that God made someone for everyone, but the more I look around I see a bunch of people that are empty and still loving... We breakup to hop into another relationship... Do we really know what real love is? if it is real love how can it be voided? I hope that in due time we understand what real love is and to get back to it