Redefining Love

does it ever cross your mind and make you wonder why we say we grow but yet we find ourselves in the same situations? Why do we date the same kind of guys and hope for a different results? why do we keep trying to change our partners? When in reality we need to stop and look in the mirror. They always say your partner is a reflection of who you are. When do you get tired of telling yourself this is the last time... I won't take him back... I've grown!!! I just cant imagine being 30 and still chasing after a nightmare. We need to take back our power and realize THAT having a relationship is a privilege not a job. Having a partner is a blessing not a possession. having a partner is a gift not a curse. Having a partner is an asset not a necessity. If you have someone in your life that cause pain and doesn't add gain let it go and learn what love is about. Sometimes it means being free and walking alone to remember what you once lost. All the love you need is inside of you and once you can find and love her everything will fall into place.

The road we travel

No matter what you have done, there is no mistakes ever made. Allow different decisions. Every event we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant they may be they are essential and necessary in order to grow and learn what is needed to learn for that moment in time. Whatever steps we take are needed to reach the path we have chosen to walk. No matter what walls you have built around yourself know that there is always someone willing to fight for you... Are you? There will be people willing to take the risk? Are you? We all make choices never mistakes the road and path we take is determined by the decisions and people we bring into our lives....

Only

Only in relationships do we know ourselves not in abstractions, and surely not in isolation. The movement of behavior is the sure guide to finding yourself. It is the mirror of your consciousness; this mirror we stand in front of will revel our true self. it will revel the images we have towards attachments. The fears we have built in our minds about love and relationships. The loneliness we feel when we sit in our room and contemplate the loses we have. The joy we felt when love was abundant. The sorrow we felt when our hearts were broken. The poverty we live in because love is out of our reach. Either way it will shape and mold us for what lies ahead. Every person, The events in your life.... Are there because you have brought them to you What you do with what you have chosen will be up to you. to bring anything into your life... Imagine that it is already there....