Redefining Love

does it ever cross your mind and make you wonder why we say we grow but yet we find ourselves in the same situations? Why do we date the same kind of guys and hope for a different results? why do we keep trying to change our partners? When in reality we need to stop and look in the mirror. They always say your partner is a reflection of who you are. When do you get tired of telling yourself this is the last time... I won't take him back... I've grown!!! I just cant imagine being 30 and still chasing after a nightmare. We need to take back our power and realize THAT having a relationship is a privilege not a job. Having a partner is a blessing not a possession. having a partner is a gift not a curse. Having a partner is an asset not a necessity. If you have someone in your life that cause pain and doesn't add gain let it go and learn what love is about. Sometimes it means being free and walking alone to remember what you once lost. All the love you need is inside of you and once you can find and love her everything will fall into place.