true love

I believe that loving someone is a choice and we choose who we love... I know it sounds kinda planned... but its not... think about it... BEFORE we go into a relationship we think about all the qualities that we want or need from someone( well women do...) and when we find someone we look at our list and compare and contrast and if your smart and the contrast wins you should walk away... But if your a settler and desperate you will stay... But if your compare wins you will put your cards on the table and so will the other person and if there are similar you guys will walk together and at that point somewhere in your heard you say" I could see us" that is in a way giving your heart away... we do it without knowing but we try to say that Love just happens... It doesn't its a process that we CHOOSE to go through.